I really like random questions
I spoke to my married friend tonight. She apologized, its been a while, but it was good to say hi. We were talking about my lack of a love life and she went into a bit of a fit about "I'm such a great guy that if she were single, and she wishes that she could find me someone and she is concerned that I'm not dating enough". Does anyone else have that problem from friends that are married or in relationships?
The ex is giving me back the ring and a few other items next month, but seems to be angry that I'm now at the point of trying to be an adult and friendly and understanding that we are done and life goes on, but it doesn't mean we have to hate each other. After 8 years and what has happened, I probably should hate her, but I'm "just too damn nice" (married friend's words). I just don't see that it accomplishes anything at this point.
This week has been long, I have not gotten home before 8 on any day so far, plus I'll probably need to go in for a while on Saturday in an effort to catch up. I'm suppose to go out to a local watering hole that night, but now it all depends on the number of hours at the office.
And now, a few more items that have come to mind.
If you end a relationship, good or bad, and still care, can you still be friends?
Is it easier to hurt someone until they leave your life completely than to say you are sorry?
Can you truly love more than one person at the same time (more than just friends)?
Can I hook up with my married friend? (just kidding, they are doing great and I'm very happy for her)
Does anyone like a guy with some freckles (I got some sun last week, I hate it)?
How about slightly shaggy hair (need a haircut too, but I did shave)?
Blonde, Brunette, or Red Heads?
Quantity or Quality?
Speakers or Headphones?
Eyes open or closed when kissing?
Right or left side of the bed?
Greek or independent (for the college kids)
Big 10 or SEC
Pro or college ball (pick a sport, any sport)
Are you tired right now, and what are you wearing...
night...
posted by ThatGuy @ 10:38 PM
15 comments
15 Comments:
I believe, that no matter how well things ended it's impossible to be friends from the get go. It's too easy to fall back into the groove of "we" and "together"
But, what do I know. I'm still single.
OH MY! It's amazing how much we have in common...just had the conversation about my love life today at work...everyone there is always wanting to fix me up...but then they ask about what I want and when I tell them I get the impression they just think I'm just plain stupid and too picky. Aparently I'm at an age where I am supposed to settle...so aggravating!
So know what you mean about long hours...I go to one job, leave, come home for like 45 minutes and it's back out for the other one...I don't seem to ever get home before 9 so you are doing better than I!
Ending a relationship and trying to be friends is tough...one person always seems to get the wrong signals...if you figure it out, be sure to let me know.
Does anyone like a girl with freckles?
Shaggy's not bad as long as it isn't too shaggy...and it has to be clean...clean shaven is sexy!
Brunette or redheads
Quality
Speakers
Eyes closed
left side of the bed
independent
SEC (Go Cats!)
Pro football & college basketball
Exhausted right now and wearing clothes for the second job...golf shirt and shorts with tennis shoes!
If you end a relationship, good or bad, and still care, can you still be friends?
No, somebody always feels stronger than the other
Is it easier to hurt someone until they leave your life completely than to say you are sorry?
Sometimes......apologizing is one of the hardest things to do.....admitting you were wrong..
Can you truly love more than one person at the same time (more than just friends)?
I'm undecided on this one
Can I hook up with my married friend? (just kidding, they are doing great and I'm very happy for her)
No
Does anyone like a guy with some freckles (I got some sun last week, I hate it)?
Freckles are fine honey
How about slightly shaggy hair (need a haircut too, but I did shave)?
get a haircut :)
Blonde, Brunette, or Red Heads?
Brunette!!!
Quantity or Quality?
Quality
Speakers or Headphones?
Speakers
Eyes open or closed when kissing?
Closed
Right or left side of the bed?
I'm not picky
Greek or independent (for the college kids)
Independent
Big 10 or SEC
Pro or college ball (pick a sport, any sport)
UK SPORTS!!!!
Are you tired right now, and what are you wearing
exhausted.........jeans and a tank top
So I don't forget this time:
I try to be friends and be happy for them, unless they completely fucked me over, then I try to be friends and kill them with kindness.
I say I'm sorry a lot. The world is my fault.
I have at least two people that I truly love, but I am only and will only ever be friends with either of them, even with those feelings.
I would love to hook up, but I believe in karma...
I don't have redhead freckles, but I just thought I would ask.
Haircut is coming, just been a little busy, and it doesn't look bad, just getting a little longer than usual.
I tend to date blondes, but brunetts are nice too. Never dated a redhead, but wouldn't be opposed. I guess my answer is "yes please"
Quality, Quality, Quantity (I mean quality)
speakers
closed
left, right, left (depends on if I'm alone, and where we are when we pass out, but i'm always alone, so left)
Greek for me
In HS I was a big UK fan, but I'm a Big 10 grad, so its a toss up
Pro football, college hoops
I'm beat, long week, jeans an polo, soon to be shorts and a T.
drinking tomorrow, so maybe a nice drunken rant after that.
I always try to be friends except with the ones who screwed me over...and to them: not a fucking word!
I'm not afraid to say I'm sorry, but honestly I'm not usually the one who needs to apologize...just the way it is.
Don't know if I really have anyone I truly love other than family...sad now that I think about it...
Hooking up is okay, everyone needs it every once in a while...but what about the next morning...then what?
I have redhead freckles. THey're cute!
Guess we would fight over the bed...LOL!
Big 10 isn't bad...as long as its college hoops how can you go wrong!
The hookup comment was with regards to the married friend, that would be an interesting morning.
Ok, I put the cup away, now what?
yeah stay away from that married stuff...that definitely leads to problems!
however single hookups...what fun!
single hookups, aw, the life. i really should get out more. I could just a single's hookup or two
yeah they are fun and no strings makes them even better...but sometimes it's just not enough...know what I mean?
thats what getting a little in the morning is for, to make sure you get enough
pick a blog, multiple threads are killig me
actually I have to go...golfers are finished...will you be around later?
okay well i gotta run and finish up so I can go home for that cold one...I'll get back on when I get home if I can find ya!
If you end a relationship, good or bad, and still care, can you still be friends?
Yes.
Is it easier to hurt someone until they leave your life completely than to say you are sorry?
That's crazy. I'm sorry is so much better.
Can you truly love more than one person at the same time (more than just friends)?
Yes. Love doesn't have limitations.
Can I hook up with my married friend? (just kidding, they are doing great and I'm very happy for her)
See above. ;)
Does anyone like a guy with some freckles (I got some sun last week, I hate it)?
Freckles are innocently charming.
How about slightly shaggy hair (need a haircut too, but I did shave)?
Get a haircut, muffin!
Blonde, Brunette, or Red Heads?
Brunettes with a little grey speckled in. Yum.
Quantity or Quality?
Both.
Speakers or Headphones?
Speakers.
Eyes open or closed when kissing?
Both!
Right or left side of the bed?
Left.
Big 10 or SEC
Huh?
Pro or college ball (pick a sport, any sport)
College! Go Bucks!
Are you tired right now, and what are you wearing...
Not tired, wearing cut of sweats and a white tee.
If you end a relationship, good or bad, and still care, can you still be friends? I haven't been able to; too many feelings got in the way.
Is it easier to hurt someone until they leave your life completely than to say you are sorry?
Confusing question-but, I think, if I'm reading this right, it would be easier to hurt someone.
(Selfish answer)
Can you truly love more than one person at the same time (more than just friends)? No
Can I hook up with my married friend? (just kidding, they are doing great and I'm very happy for her)You answered that already
Does anyone like a guy with some freckles (I got some sun last week, I hate it)? of course
How about slightly shaggy hair (need a haircut too, but I did shave)? Depends on how shaggy
Blonde, Brunette, or Red Heads?
Blondes-and I'm saying this and I'm a brunette (LOL)
Quantity or Quality? quality
Speakers or Headphones? Speakers I like it loud where everyone can hear it. But in my car you won't hear me thumping down the road cuz my bass is mind numbing loud.
Eyes open or closed when kissing?
Closed. If you open them it looks like one big eye.
Right or left side of the bed?
Doesn't matter
Greek or independent (for the college kids) I'm not a college kid
Big 10 or SEC
SEC!!!
Pro or college ball (pick a sport, any sport) College basketball, pro football
Are you tired right now,
obviously not
and what are you wearing...
normal round the house wear-t-shirt/underwear
Enjoying your blog.
Blessings!
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