It has been brought to my attention...

...that my post yesterday made me sound extrememly superficial. Let me be clear, I am as human as the next person, and have more than my share of superficial moments. I'll be the first to admit that appearance is not everything, but in humans it is important, but there also has to be something below to sustain anything beyond a flash romance. I've had that. I've also dated at least 2 people that were the full package, but for one reason or another didn't work out. The question was more directed towards settling. I keep swinging back and forth on that point. I could settle at anytime. I have that option (a few of them actually). I don't want to go that route and later be unhappy and unable to do anything about it. So, for the time being, be it superficial or picky, I'm gonna try to keep pushing for happy versus settle, and if I can get a few more good friends that will keep me in line (such as pointing out how bad I sounded), I more than welcome it.