I really fucking hate people

So I bowl in a league on Thursdays when I can get out of work. Its actually titled "Just for fun". I have fun. I drink a little, bowl a few games. The people on my team are obnoxious, just like me. We have a good time. Aparently I pissed off the two male members of the other team. I have two co-existing thoughts about this. First is that I need to apologize. I didn't mean to upset anyone. I was having a good time. I am an ass. Plain and simple. If you know me, its understood and taken as a part of my personality. More smart ass, and not the type to just shut up than ass, but kinda like a big ass. Its who I am. I smart off, call names, life goes on. I offered my appology to the wife, since he walked off and she is the one that told me they were mad, and she told me to say it to him next week. So, my second train of thought. One of my team mates works with her. they do not know if it will be a good idea for me to offer my regrets. my opinion is that if they can't take an appology, then i would rather tell them to grow the fuck up and get over it. God damnit i hate people. Without knowing or seeing my behavior to truly make a judgement either way, does anyone have an opinion, tell me I'm right or wrong?